At one point I came to realize pain and suffering cannot be erased.
Although is a common and natural impulse for a parent to want their offspring to have a happy life, “to be happy” it is also a delusional and backfiring goal/expectation to imprint on others as it dooms them to continuous disappointments and struggles. It sets them on a war against anything considered less than a mark of success.
At the same times we are also told we have to be patient with things or people who are hurting us, which is an absolute lie. There is no reason whatsoever why you should allow someone to hurt you, not reasons to stay, or lessons to be gained from it.
If you get hit by what acts as a bad energy to your system, just move away.
Do not fight it.
Do not try to be right or wrong, do not label that energy or figure-figure on what the mind is telling you about it. If you recognize that energy as destructive DO NOT ENGAGE with it, just smoothly move away.
I have no patience for greedy, selfish people and more than that, at this point in my life, I cannot afford to allow parasites of energy around me.
It took me years of counseling (not Scientology. Contrary to what the Church of $cientology teaches you, there is actually good counseling outside Scientology) to finally understand the importance of setting your boundaries. And the first one to set your boundaries with, is your own mind.
The very mind which tells you to engage into fights, to justify others abusing you, to be loyally passive to destructive actions.
Set boundaries to the mind which justify suffering or hurting other to protect yourself, which prompt you to engage in a war… which prompts you to compromise with what you really know to be a vampire of energy disgused as person, group or a situation.
I might have told you before, my view of life is very close to the one illustrated in the Matrix, and in the movie Inception.
Having that view, I know there is very little in this “dream/prison” which counts, yet although asleep, beyond the illusion of installed identities there is consciousness.
A conscious being which is constantly violated and for that, I believe, the only valuable thing we can do for others (where awakening is not possible) is to alleviate in any possible way or opportunity, that inner pain common to all of us.
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